Who Says Women Don't Want The Looks
- By Terry Leslie
- Published 05/16/2008
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Terry Leslie
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We humans are programmed to run from what ever that is chasing us. This itself creates a problem as we as guys feel the need to pursue them to make them ours.
We therefore need to learn to attract them rather than thinking of pursuing them. Isn't this a relief. Through attraction, not only will you save time, energy and money, it's so much more fun less the frustration and anxiety.
Confidence within a man is so important. Nothing turns a women off more than a guy that leans on a women for physical or emotional security. You have all heard of he's my shoulder to cry on, he's the rock in my world. Can you imagine the reverse where she expects you to cry on her shoulder and her being the rock in your life. Definitely a no go zone.
Try to avoid doing or saying anything which shows you lack confidence to do it alone. Women are always looking for security and masculinity of a man.
Insecurity and neediness will be your two worst enemies so develop your life and build your self confidence to overcome these tow deadly sins.
You may have in mind a long term relationship, but its also important that you allow her to also try to court you. Don't let it be a one sided
game. It invariably does most of the time and this is what kills off passion. One sided romance.
Allow her to do some work too. She will find it also challenging to keep you interested in her and she will find you interesting and not typical and above all, sexy.
Ask yourself what type of women I am looking for. This is vitally important because it will ultimately determine where you need to go to attract these type of women into your life. You need to think of the type of places your woman would like to go to.
Are you looking at the party animal who frequents bars and nightclubs?
Are you looking for the down to earth type who will likely be in yoga classes?
A bit of thinking goes a long way and it helps you avoid being attracted to the wrong type of girl on the first place and wasting time.
Lastly, today we would like to touch on personality traits which attract women. Unlike men, women are much more interested and attracted to a man whose personality resonates with there before the physical attraction comes into play.
Be in touch with yourself, develop a sense of adventure and a sense of humor. Women are attracted to the whole package of yours which personality is a main part, so focus your attention to this as well.
We therefore need to learn to attract them rather than thinking of pursuing them. Isn't this a relief. Through attraction, not only will you save time, energy and money, it's so much more fun less the frustration and anxiety.
Confidence within a man is so important. Nothing turns a women off more than a guy that leans on a women for physical or emotional security. You have all heard of he's my shoulder to cry on, he's the rock in my world. Can you imagine the reverse where she expects you to cry on her shoulder and her being the rock in your life. Definitely a no go zone.
Try to avoid doing or saying anything which shows you lack confidence to do it alone. Women are always looking for security and masculinity of a man.
Insecurity and neediness will be your two worst enemies so develop your life and build your self confidence to overcome these tow deadly sins.
You may have in mind a long term relationship, but its also important that you allow her to also try to court you. Don't let it be a one sided
Allow her to do some work too. She will find it also challenging to keep you interested in her and she will find you interesting and not typical and above all, sexy.
Ask yourself what type of women I am looking for. This is vitally important because it will ultimately determine where you need to go to attract these type of women into your life. You need to think of the type of places your woman would like to go to.
Are you looking at the party animal who frequents bars and nightclubs?
Are you looking for the down to earth type who will likely be in yoga classes?
A bit of thinking goes a long way and it helps you avoid being attracted to the wrong type of girl on the first place and wasting time.
Lastly, today we would like to touch on personality traits which attract women. Unlike men, women are much more interested and attracted to a man whose personality resonates with there before the physical attraction comes into play.
Be in touch with yourself, develop a sense of adventure and a sense of humor. Women are attracted to the whole package of yours which personality is a main part, so focus your attention to this as well.