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The act of getting married is essentially turning on an automatic program that says what you and your spouse must do when you get married.

Many parents believe that the best way to teach children to be successful is to teach them to obey. Teach them to argue, instead!

If you are still trying to change something that can't be changed, you are wasting your energy.

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Relationship advice for women who feel like victims of controlling husbands. Discover how you are cooperating in maintaining such an unproductive relationship and explore your options for making critical changes.

You may believe that never arguing with each other will make your relationship strong. What usually happens though, is because you're both human you have different needs and wants. If you never even notice, let alone discuss (argue about?) your different needs and wants, you may not even realize the damage you're doing to your relationship.

Almost everything you do is done for a reason, but sometimes you have to look below the surface to discover the really important hidden reason for your behavior. Jim was collecting evidence to support his arguments, instead of looking at what was relly bothering him.